My baby boy was born at 21 weeks after my waters broke and I went into early labour on Thursday. It happened so suddenly, I went from feeling my baby move and hearing his strong heartbeat to holding my beautiful son in just a few hours. At 21 weeks, there was no hope of survival, and they didn't even try. The previous week we had an anomaly scan which didn't find any problems. We have agreed to a post mortem and are awaiting results of various tests. He was already much loved and much longed for, after 3 years TTC and a second cycle of IVF.
We haven't named our baby yet, as we only just found out that it was a boy at the 20wk scan. We had a cute nickname since I found out I was pregnant but didn't really discuss names. We sort of thought of one but it doesn't suit him and also the name means 'life' so it's quite hard for us to think of him with that name. How do we find a name for our baby? How did anyone else do this?
Generally wanted to hear any other stories and wondering if anyone has any words of advice to cope, what helped, what didn't?
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Blueroses99 · 17/07/2016 07:12
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