Hi. I just feel so incredibly sad at the moment, and I wanted to air my thoughts and feelings in a safe place.
Last year I discovered I was having identical twin girls, but at the 20 week scan they were diagnosed with twin to twin transfusion syndrome. I had laser surgery to try and correct the problem, but it didn't work and 3 weeks later my waters broke. It took two days for labour to begin, by which time I had picked up an infection and was in a bad way when I delivered. They had died shortly before I delivered. I honestly don't know how I got through the next few days, weeks and months. I didn't really want anyone's sympathy, or offers to help, I just said all I wanted was my baby girls back, and seeing as no one could bring them back I didn't want their support. I was is a very very dark place, and right now I feel just the same as I did 12 months ago.
I have tried counselling but I found it awkward and not of much help at all. I've been to support groups but they made me feel worse.
At the moment I am 18 weeks pregnant with a new baby. It's a positive thing in my life, and I am happy, but so very scared. I'm grieving for my twins at the same time as looking forward to my new baby. I don't feel the same excitement as last time because now I know not every pregnancy ends well. It's sad because this baby deserves to be celebrated.
I'm just so sad at the moment. My words can't really express how I'm feeling but I'm sure those of you who have gone through similar can relate. Thank you for reading X
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