I wanted to sure, as I did so much googling trying to find out about people's experiences of SMM/ERPC.
Background: I have known that I would lose my baby for what seems like eternity - began bleeding very early on (at about 6 weeks), underdeveloped sac, wait 2 weeks, potential foetal pole but still measuring way behind, wait another 2 weeks, another scan shows no foetal pole. Booked ERPC under local but the day I turned up I started to miscarry naturally. 2 weeks later...still bleeding and still pregnant.
Went for one last scan that showed potential tissue remaining so booked in for an ERPC - general this time. Last time I wanted to be in and out quickly. This time I just wanted to not be awake for it. Emotionally I feel I began to heal a while ago as I knew very early on things weren't right, but physically the bleeding (constantly since mid-November) has driven me insane.
So today I had my procedure. Had to get up at 5.30 to get to the hospital for 7am. (QMC - Nottingham). I wasn't nervous about the operation particularly, just apprehensive about the whole event. Had some pre-op checks and was taken to the ward - I was given my own side room which I appreciated. The nurse administered vaginal pessaries (quick and painless) to open the cervix. I felt vaguely achey, but I think my cervix was already open from the constant bleeding. I had to wait an hour or so, and was then taken to theatre. They stuck a few monitors in my chest, and an IV in my hand. They then out a small amount of the anaesthetic in "to relax me" and I felt whoozy. The last thing I remember is them giving me some oxygen through a mask and I was gone, so they must have out more anaesthetic in. It literally took milliseconds and I had no memory of "going to sleep".
The next thing I knew I woke up - quickly and very wide awake! I remember going on about it all being "amazing" and how "amazing" the staff are lol But I must have still been a bit out of it because apparently the surgeon spoke to me and I don't remember this. A lovely lady from theatre ( a nurse?) stayed with me in recovery, we had a chat about teaching and nursing and how they are underappreciated professions. I bled quite heavily during that first 15 mins so she helped me to change pads and cleaned me up - very supportive and dignified. I was then taken back to the ward room and given some toast and tea. I continued to bleed (with one clot) which worried me a bit. I stayed another 2 hours (and was offered more food!) and then they came to discharge me about 1pm. I was still bleeding but not as heavily. I had absolutely no pain and felt 100% fine!
They gave me a sick note (note- they advise a week off! I'm not planning on taking a week off unless I really need it - I thrive in work, but still the sick note is there if needed.) they also gave me Azithromycin (an antibiotic). I had to take 4 capsules there and then.
I got home and felt fine for an hour or two, but then had quite bad stomach ache (not where my uterus was - actual stomach ache, very tender). I think that was a side effect of the antibiotics, not the operation. I slept for a couple of hours and have since woken up and had dinner. I'm bleeding lightly and feeling absolutely fine. I am now just crossing my fingers they got everything, but that will be another 2 week wait and hope that the bleeding stops. We don't plan on trying again for a few months - part of me wants to. But part of me cannot go through all of this again so soon physically (not to mention the amount of time off work), and I need to be prepared for that. They have offered me an early reassurance scan if/when I get pregnant again
Sorry if this has been boring...I found it quite therapeutic to write it all down, and hope it might help anyone waiting for an ERPC/SMM to feel happier about the process. Aside from some moments of waiting around for quite a while (no ones fault), I absolutely cannot fault any of the NHS staff. They were absolutely lovely from start to finish - I even managed to have a laugh and joke with them along the way. And they deserve recognition for that.
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MissClarke86 · 07/02/2016 20:11
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