I hope it's ok to start a new thread about this, all the others I found seemed dormant.
My DH and I lost our baby last week at 17+4 when my labour started out of the blue. I had about 20 mins of contraction type pain and then my waters broke. Luckily I work in a maternity hospital so was able to go round to Early Pregnancy and they got me admitted to the gynae ward where doctors confirmed what was happening. I then delivered our baby but had to go into theatre straight away for manual removal of the placenta as it wouldn't come away & I was bleeding quite a lot.
I'm feeling very sad of course but think am coping with the loss and just getting through each day.
I do keep going back over the days before it happened though, wondering if there were signs I missed. I had no bleeding but did have a bit of what I thought was stretching pain on & off.
I was due to see my midwife the day before it happened but there was a mix up and for some reason my appointment got cancelled. I know logically that seeing her probably wouldn't have made a difference but I had planned to ask her about the pain and I just keep coming back to "what if..." which is a bit torturous.
We're waiting for test results now but would be really grateful to hear about anyone else's experience (and happy stories about post miscarriage babies!).
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YouCantCallMeBetty · 04/02/2016 09:00
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