I found out at 11.5 weeks that I'd had a missed miscarriage. That was a week ago and today I went to the EPU to find I've still not actually miscarried, despite daily bleeding. I've opted for a D&C tomorrow morning only because it sounded marginally less crap than the other options (Theres just no 'good' option is there?!) I'm finding talking about it all helps but I think I might have exhausted my partner and family; I'm just repeating myself now! Im so up and down. Some days I feel like I've turned a corner only to suddenly burst into tears again. I also feel really angry, like I did everything 'right' and so it shouldn't have happened to me, which I know is ridiculous as it's something that can't be predicted or prevented. It's my first pregnancy so although it's lovely to know that so many women go on to have babies it's hard to feel confident that I will too. Besides, I still want this baby even if there are more in the future.
Just wondered if anyone else was experiencing miscarriage and wanted to share how they're feeling? I don't know how I'll feel tomorrow physically, I've never been under anaesthetic before. Anyone had medical management of miscarriage and has advice on the recovery time?
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Australia81 · 02/07/2015 12:59
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