I found out id had a mmc on mon 7th april, I had an erpc on wed the 9th.
Im a nanny and I just dont feel ready to go back, im devastated and spend a huge amount of the day in tears, physically im fine but emotionally im a complete mess.
Its barely been 2 weeks and everyone is telling me I should be going back and returning to normal.
My boss has emailed me tonight saying I need to supply a sick note, fine id planned to go to the drs tomorrow to get one and ask about support groups/counselling, and that they will be asking to see my medical records before I return to work if im off for a prolonged period.
Im so upset and dont know how to deal with it, is 2 weeks long enough? Should I go back? Can I lose my job for taking an extra week off?
I dont expect to get paid I know they have to pay a replacement nanny, ive worked with them for 6 years and rarely have time off, I hate that im letting them down but I just cant go back yet.
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