Apologies in advance of the long ramble...... DH and I have been trying for DC3 since May 2011, have had 5 early MCs since we began trying. I am 42 and DH is 45, I had DD when I was 30 and DS when I was 34, both conceived on the first month of trying so we were very lucky. Life events got in the way of trying for a third and when I turned 40, we thought we would try for another baby, thinking it would happen straight away again, How wrong we were. I seem to get pregnant really easily, my cycle is bang on, 29/30 days and I ovulate around CD14. The pregnancies always fail between 4-5 weeks and one went on to 8 weeks but it was an empty sac. NHS tests all normal, 2nd opinion with a private Gynae proved all normal, pelvic scan early this year was normal and showed that I am producing the egg quantity of a 25 year old as I had a follicle count of 24. I have been taking high dose folic acid, pre-conception vits, and also tried progesterone supplements and baby aspirin on one cycle on the advice of my Gynae. We then took 6 months off trying and I underwent a course of acupuncture supported with Chinese herbs. My acupuncturist told me I had weakened liver and kidney function and poor circulation hence the blood flow into my uterus wasn't good enough to support an early pregnancy. I put all my belief and hope in this treatment as it gave me something to cling on to. Sadly, another early MC last weekend has left me desperately sad, despite the fact that I know I am incredibly lucky and blessed to have a wonderful DD and DS. But, it doesn't take away that maternal longing for another child and accepting that my body is now probably too old is hard. My head is telling me to give up, move on and make the most of what we have yet my heart tells me to keep trying.
Has anyone else been in this situation at my age? Thank you so much for reading.
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Rosepip · 24/10/2012 14:03
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