i had a MMC in early oct last year and so was delighted to get BFP on 9th jan which was date of expected AF as regular 28 day cycle. Went for early scan today which should have been 9+6 weeks. The sonographer told me could not find a heartbeat and baby only measuring 6 weeks. They said that as don't always see heartbeat at 6 weeks I should come back for further scan in a week. I asked to see the consultant as I knew there was no possibility for me to viably be 6 weeks pg as not DTD since found out was PG as so terrified of miscarrying again. They said to take bloods to be sure and bloods came back at 29,000 which is don't think is that high but dr said that they can't rule out a viable PG and that I could just have my dates wrong and so have cancelled the ERPC I had booked in for tomorrow and booked another scan in a week.
I am totally devastated at my second PG resulting in what appears to be another MMC and I just want to move on as quick as possible. I already have a DC so I am thankful for that but desperate for another. I feel like the fact they will not rule out a viable PG has given me some hope that I could come back in a week and see a healthy baby with a heartbeat and the dr even tried to pursued me over the phone that it could be possible I might be only 6 weeks PG and that I could have ovulated late in my cycle even though I am sure my dates are right. even if I did ovulate late it could not account for the difference between 6 and nearly 10 weeks. I know deep down it is impossible for the PG to be viable but I think I am secretly hoping the dr may be right and then am going to go through the crushing disappointment again in a week.
I suppose I am looking for someone else to confirm that the dr cannot be right and there is no hope. DS has been amazing but I think he too is secretly hoping as well.
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mylittlemonkey · 16/02/2012 22:16
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