I hate being menopausal - HATE it. I've been having symptoms since I was 38 and now I'm 42 and I've been on HRT since June. HRT has made such a difference to me - boosted my mood, stopped the physical symptoms, made me sleep better etc.
But despite that, I can't get to grips with this. I'm so angry and embarrassed and sad that I've reached this stage in my life. I've told my mum and my husband - no one else so I have to put up with things like my MIL asking if I'm going to have another baby like I wanted, or my older friend who's in her 50s telling me how easy her menopause has been and and if I'm lucky mine will be the same etc. No one is being horrible but I hate it all the same!
It took me a whole year between getting my blood tests to going back to the GP for HRT. She gave me three months worth and I ran out two weeks ago. I eventually made an appointment to go and see her for more but that's not for another week. I am already feeling shit! My head's all over the place and my hot flushes are coming back. And now I'm cross with myself for not going sooner.
This is all a bit waffly but all I really want to know is given that I'm going to have to take sodding HRT for probably another 10 years, how did you all come to terms with this and make peace with it?
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Coming to terms with the menopause
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KathyBeale · 23/09/2016 09:12
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