I wonder if anyone has had the same experience as me. I don't quite know what to do. My ex-husband and I separated in February 2008 - we have two boys who were 6 and 3 at the time. The boys coped pretty well and have regularly seen their father who has a flat close by (they spend every other wknd with him but live with me.) Everything has gone pretty smoothly until recently when my eldest boy - now 8 - has suddenly become terribly distressed stating that he misses daddy and he can't stop thinking about him and will we ever get back together...etc. He keeps telling me he is 'miserable' because daddy doesn't live with us. His distress has manifested itself with my son lying and stealing worthless little objects - which he then shows me lying about where he got from. This is very distressing for him and me, as I was congratulating myself at how well the boys had adjusted to our new life.
Is this delayed reaction, and has anyone else experienced this...and will my 5 yr old go through the same reaction when he is 8???
Pls help, someone.
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weimymummy · 26/04/2010 21:29
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