I'm not sure if everyone will be able to relate to this and maybe I'm just a weirdo different but I think dating is a nightmare and I now understand how my friend who has been single for some years felt!
Sadly, I have a history of choosing losers anyway, but if I find someone decent I then find myself struggling to explain my bizarre lifestyle, which the losers don't seem to question. Usually it becomes difficult to explain why, in fact
I don't currently really eat (because I've been depressed)
I have to be home at 11 by the latest so I can take my medication, otherwise I get ill (I can't take it out because it makes me sleepy)
So a conversation like;
'why don't we go out for a meal?'
'well I can't really sit down to eat a meal'
'oh, why not?'
'because I find it difficult to eat meals'
'why??' followed by
'......well what do you eat?'
'ummmmm.......'
Actually this is also a conversation I end up having with friends! I know it's pathetic but it seems difficult to do anything about it. I don't think I have anorexia but I just eat enough to get by.
So the other day I went on a date with a really nice guy who is also gorgeous - he looks like a model. And it is so rarely that I have been out with someone decent that I didn't know how to be with him.
And another thing I have noticed is that whoever I go on a date with, they don't manage to hide very well that they are intent on jumping me at any moment!
Sorry, just venting....
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electra · 20/11/2009 10:14
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