My partner and I have a new baby, and I have two children from my previous marriage. So we now have 3 children living with us.
We were paying £54 to my partner's ex for one son. Their oldest son lived with us for 6 months and we received £5 a week for him - as his mum's on benefits.
But now my partner's older son is also living with his mother and we're not sure what we should offer. My partner earns £390 a week (I'm on maternity pay - 463 a month, but returning to training- so very similar amount!). Any ideas? My partner's ex is ok about not using CSA, but I'm thinking it might be better to go via them. My partner's ex also wants us to pay £10 each per child for pocket money and phone top-ups. We also buy their main presents, clothes, shoes, trainers, computer games and learning software, and many other items they need (including a laptop), weve also ended up having to buy them 3 phones each in 10 months as they either lose them or break them (no more!).
Any suggestions would be appreciated as I want to be fair, and it is I who is managing our home finances. But I am also wondering whether it would be much easier to just let CSA deal with it. Any idea how much this might be?
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how much maintenance for 2 kids, we have 3 kids at home?
theoptimist · 30/07/2009 23:44
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