Hi
I'm new to the site. Basically I split up with my partner 2 1/2 years ago. Sort of got back together, had another baby, very nearly got back together, But he left our kids at home while I was in hospital(11,9,7,3 and 12days!)and they had to spend 4 days in care(the only thing that kept me going was that my 12 day old was returned to the hospital to be with me).I realised I could never trust him again, then my now 4 year old broke his leg, and I had to ask him for help, he was meant to look after them 1 night, but he dumped them on a woman up the road to go and play poker with his girlfriend!I hate him, but I do think I should let the children decide whether they want to see him. I tried to be friends with him, but lately he can't be bothered with the kids, never comes to see them. What should I do? also his girlfriend has 4 kids and I think she should know about him leaving the kids home alone, do I try and contact her or let social services know. I was told he could never be left in charge of children because he isn't a mature adult, but that will make things worse between me and him and as a result on his relationship with the children. Help me please!
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sooey76 · 28/07/2009 15:02
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