OK...I know its v late but I would appreciate some advice from anyone. I don't know what to do.
After 3 yrs of regular-ish contact with our son, my ex has been away with his gf for the past 3 months. He took 4 yr old DS out there for a month and dropped him back 2 months ago, then got on next flight back. He has called once since then... hasn't spoken to DS in 6 weeks! DS asking where is his dad, why hasn't called, where is he living, etc... No number on which to call dad, just his GF's mobile. Get a text last wed, saying they got back last Tues and sorry they hadnt been 'able' to be in touch. He then calls today asking to have son for the weekend, at GF's mum's house nearby. I dont know what to do - am totally incandescent with rage as to him f-ing off for 6 weeks, but also know that DS would dearly love to spend a weekend with him. But he has been very unsettled recently, extremely challenging behaviour etc - he is about to start school and I don't want to set a precendent for irregular contact, etc. I want him to know that he can't just f off for 6 weeks then swan back in for a weekend. I just dont know what the right thing to do is. Any suggestions much appreciated!! Many thanks.
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gringa9000 · 15/07/2009 22:44
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