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do you think x might notice this flea in his ear for once?

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mrsmortenharket · 03/07/2009 10:56

don't dear --- me and as for respect - lmaovm.
the contact centre was the only option becasue of your attitude and your behaviour towards me and most importantly, francesca. what kind of person tells a 3yr old that their heart was broken?you feckin eejit, you don't tell them, you just say you having a sad day and leave it at that. then you go and tell her about a party before even mentioning it to me - hows that for respect? it stinks. as for the money, it's all about your money and your ,mployment needs, isn't it? if you had gone to mediation in the first place well, you wouldn't listen would you?

i even bloody told you about dd's FIRST SPORTS DAY and you couldn't turn up to that could you? your loss.

you have had chance after chance after chance. get your ass in gear (x) and talk to your solicitor. dd has been crying night after bloody night nearly, for two weeks. get your fecking ass in gear, put your daughter first for once instead of yourself.

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Superduperloopthelooper · 03/07/2009 11:33

mrsm. Unfortunately, it will probably make absolutely no difference to him. If he has so little consideration for your dd's feelings then he probably lives in his own little world, and this may not penetrate it.

All you can do really is pick up the pieces. Tell dd that daddy was having a sad day, and play it down. Treat ex's attendance at events etc as an optional extra. I've stopped telling ds anything until ex is actually on the way.

It is heartbreaking to have to deal with the fallout when he is behaving so badly. As you say, though, it will be his loss ultimately and your dd has consistency and love from you, so she's not doing too badly .