Urgh, I came that close to txting xp to see if he fancied a quickie

[NervousNutty]

I had the phone in my hand but I didn't do it, which is good, but why would I even be tempted ?

I need my head testing.

[CarGirl]

get a grip woman!

I think like you said a few weeks ago, you're feeling very lonely at the moment sad I presume you're missing the intimacy rather than the actual sex?

[NervousNutty]

Hmm both I reckon

I actually sat here thinking 'well at least he wont care about the extra stone i am carrying'

God how low must my bloody self esteem be.

[NervousNutty]

Oh and thanks for the slap, i needed it.

[ChasingSquirrels]

have to say - I feel like I would have recently have done mine if he hadn't been in a relationship - but it would have been a pure sex thing. And he would be unlikely to go there anyway.

Self esteem yes - but I do want a shag, and it would be easy and hit all the boxes without much effort!

[NervousNutty]

Yes exactly squirrel. It would have been just sex here too, and xo would have said yes but am glad i didn't.

[Meglet]

it's the heat! Well done for resisting.

I felt the same today . But when ex p came round to do the dc's bath and bedtime he had really smelly feet, yay!!!

[NervousNutty]

Lol Meglet. It was a good job I didn't as xp was out all day so i'd have just looked daft anyway.

I am still tempted, but not cos I want him, I just want sex fgs. So unlike me, as I was never bothered before, but 3 yrs is taking the piss, and is actually starting to make me irritable lol.

[SolidGoldBrass]

Check out your local swingers' clubs for friendly, no=strings shagging.(There are always private rooms ie you don't have to do it in front of an audience if you don't want to.)

[Meglet]

3 years is not much fun is it. I've lasted 6 months since we split in the new year.

[Meglet]

SGB noooooooo! Good idea, but, nooooooo!

[NervousNutty]

I am way too shy to do that unfortunatly.

I really wish i was the go and pull a bloke for sex type at the mo, but even if i tried i'd come home empty handed lol.

[SolidGoldBrass]

Well that;s why I said try a swingers' cub ather than just some random meat-market bar. Swingers generally have better manners and are better at sex.

[NervousNutty]

I've not got the nerve honestly, i'd run a mile.

[Meglet]

have looked at swingers web sites . Still noooooo!

But I think you are right SGB about then having advantages over the local meat market.