She asked earlier this afternoon, where's my Daddy? Where does he live?
I told her he lived in his house somewhere else, she said Ok. Then she asked why didn't he live here? I just quietly said, Mummy & daddy don't love each other anymore, so daddy lives in his house & Mummy in hers with you and Ds. Again she said Ok, but the questions are coming now, some are easy, some not so.
Last time he was here he put her to bed, she said to him "Daddy can you stay and sleep in my bed with me"...that hit him hard, he cried and told her he couldn't & had to go home, which upset her too.
She (and ds) do see him, just not very much, 4hrs a month supervised.
Did I say the right thing? She's only 3.4yo and is asking/wondering already.
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Claire2009 · 16/06/2009 23:43
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