The papers for my ex applying for a contact order arrived yesterday.
He is abusive, controlling, narsissistic (sp?) and generally completely unsuitable to see the children unsupervised. Apart from anything, there is a substantial risk of abduction, but how do I prove such a thing?
So far he has chosen to see them only 4 times (in 6 years)in a contact centre as I insist on that, and contacted them by letter a handful of times.
Please, I just want someone with experience to tell me what the chances are that he would win the right to have unsupervised access.
what can I do?
is there a chance that he'll lose interest and drop the matter? I mean, he does not even live in this country, and is not genuinally that bothered with the children. He just likes control. That is why he is doing this. Why now, after 6 years?
I am so upset, as you can probably tell.
Any positive reassurance, or personal experience welcome.
I know I need to sort out a solicitor. Just wanted to hear some helpful words before that...
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the dreaded thing has happened
redpyjamas · 25/02/2009 23:17
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