My ex has been having the kids for 2 weekends out of 3 which is great. He's quite a good dad although he lacks common sense sometimes. Next weekend he and his sister have decided to hold a car boot sale at a really big venue near to us and it's usually always really busy. They are going to drag the kids with them and take turns walking them round the field for up to 4 hours in god knows what weather conditions. He reckons they'll take two cars so they can go for a drive with the kids if they get bored while the other one minds the stall. I'm not happy about this at all as a i'm scared to death my daughter who's 2 will run of, get lost in the crowd and get taken. she's got a habit of running off anyway. b because they will be bored and they won't be having quality time with thier dad which is one of the reasons for him having them. My mum has offered to have them while they go to thier car boot sale in peace and then he can go and get them later and still have the rest of sunday afternoon with them.
Well ex has created merry hell about it. He's told me i'm being unfair, he wouldn't listen to my concerns about dd, said I was being selfish, tried emotional shite about it being the only time that he sees the kids and why should he (ex )have to miss out. In fct he started getting nasty until i put the phone down on him.
I'm like helloo!!! he was the one that walked away from us in the first place and how dare he try and make me feel guilty. In fact he's been a complete arse this weekend anyway. I'm missing the kids like crazy and i text him and he never replied soI asked him why he never replied and he said 'And? so what?? I don't have to tell you my every move do I?'
Well to stop rambling does anybody think i'm being selfish? I daren't tell him that my parents want to take ds away in thier caravan in 3 weekends time. it's something that they've always done even long before ex and split and ds is so looking forward to it. arrrhhhh why are men such tw*ts?
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Janna · 27/03/2005 12:05
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