I'm 38+5 weeks PG and father to be decided that he didn't want to know from the off but has been dithering in between, last month he decided i was being selfish, i didn't include him in any of the decisions so he doesn't want to take responsibility for his child.
The day i found out i was Pg he was the first person i told (apart from my Dr), This was very unexpected as was told had a very slim chance of conceiving naturally from previous problems. So i told him how i felt that i wanted to keep this baby as might not get this chance again, he said there and then abortion, but i couldn't bring myself to do it knowing what i'd been told previously. But i agreed to talk about all options we had, so made an appointment with Dr and local ella gordon unit and he just told me to leave him alone. But it's really been awkward as we work together and have the same circle of friends and he has been avoiding me, i wrote him a letter about how i felt and tonight got a text message stating he received it but spending the weekend with his family ( who do not know about the baby and as far as he is concerned never will) and will reply when he get's home if he feels like it. It make me angry, i never thought he would be like this and so does every one we know, i took the pill religiously everyday to regulate my periods, he never wore anything and assumed i was on the pill to prevent pg. but even tho i took my conracteptive everyday he still considers me to be selfish, he's been told by some of our friends he's out of order but he still considers it to be all my fault so will refuse to take part in his child life. it's really getting to me, what should i do?
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Gem1355 · 25/03/2005 20:54
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