I am just so, angry with XP today.
I've forgiven him a lot of things on the basis that he is a good father even though he was bloody awful to be with (too many issues to list here)
But sometimes, just sometimes he REALLY gets to me. And today was one of those days.
We share custody 50/50. DS is with me Sun-Wed, XP Thur-Sat
Anyway he leaves a message last night telling mhe is worried about DS and he will take him to the doctor. OK, so I do (probably over protective) mum thing of worrying and stressing about by little boy, is he OK? So I left several messages today for XP, can you let me know DS is, when he is going to docs. Nothing, not a thing all day to let me know how DS is until I send a final message.
He didn't bother taking DS to doctors. Kept him at home all day, did not bother telling nursery he wasn't coming in. So it will fall to me to sort it out as per usual
Me all day getting more and more worried.
God I know lots of you will be reading and thinking what's so bad about that you daft woman? And I KNOW there are much worse X's on here, believe me! It's difficult to explain..there is a pattern of dismissing, patronising, emotionally abusive behaviour but it's just made me AAAAARRRGGGHHH today.
In fact I was so upset I snapped at a colleague (inmmediately apologised) which is just not like me at all so I feel bad about that too....
I'm not even sure what the point of this post is but I feeling a little better for putting it all down.
God sometimes I could cheerfully strangle him. Of course I wouldn't ever but...YKWIM. Thanks for listening.
(NB this has been posted twice..forgot to put a title on the other thread!)
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GRRRRRR....XP has really pushed my buttons today!!!
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Janos · 25/09/2008 21:00
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