In a nutshell, DS aged 4 didn't start to see his dad until he was 2. DS never wanted to go to him. The relationship broke down to the extent that ex DP took me to court and he got access at a contact centre. DS refused to see him and contact broke down. DS got so stressed that he got referred by the health visitor to a Child Mental Health Service. Ex DP has jumped in on the back of this and said he intends to be fully involved with the referral. The problem is, he makes me ill, his intimidation, his threats, his LIES, his snearing, his mocking, AND the front he puts on for other people. The stress has landed me in hospital twice. We tried mediation once but he portrayed a completely different person and if anyone watches Coronation Street, he was doing a "Charlie". I was so freaked out, I can't be in the same room as him, let alone talk to him. How do I sort this one out? By the way, the reason DS is so anti, is because ex DP has been saying all sorts of nasty things about me to him, including that I don't love him.Sorry I've not been on here much, but all this has taken over my life AGAIN.
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Mummyloves · 26/02/2005 23:48
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