how are you celebrating your babies 1st birthday?

[hayley2u]

cant believ my princess will be 1 on the 12th, its been a tough year for us with dd having epilepsy but she s a fighter and is now in the 5 % to hopefully recover so i am having a big party on the suday after her bday. i have had a lot of trouble with her dad who has let her down a terrible lot so i have not invited him to party just us my family friends.but, im getting a bouncy castle and going to do a pink party im more excited than she will be ha
what are you doing for their big day

[yerblurt]

personally think it would be heartbreaking for a dad, no matter what has happened in the past, for him not to be there at such a milestone like a 1st b'day ... any chance some bridges could be made and both could grin and bear it for the day?

[hayley2u]

iv given this much thought, he can do something for her birthday with his family he is a violent man he is not upsetting her day