I'm taking DD (20 months) to exP tomorrow, til Monday evening. It takes us 4 hours to get there, is near where most of my friends live. So, rather than coming back to our new home, I'm housesitting for a friend - so I have an immaculate flat (plus animal menagerie to feed) to myself for 2 days. Bliss, by most mums' standards. Mine too, if my brain were working properly.
Last night we were up half the night as DD is cutting her canines. Today I phoned in sick - I'm a surgeon - I can't operate on a really really bad sleep deficit.
DD has done ok today given how awful the night was. And me? I've done terribly. Worrying. Craving sleep. Wondering if I'll survive the weekend without doing something stupid. Wanting alcohol.
Yeah, there are mental health issues. But mostly, I am coping ok. It is the 4th time she's stayed with Daddy. And I still am unbelievably rubbish at dealing with it.
The next time after this, it will be for a whole week. He is capable of caring for her for that long. But me - I am going to work 90 odd hours. Or maybe I'll just be sectioned.
I hate this. I love my DD. I love my life with her. I love my job. And two days away reveals what a stupid idiot I am. How will she ever be proud of being my daughter? I wish she had someone better. I wish I deserved such a beautiful girl. I wish she had a mother who could think straight, and let thoughts control her feelings, not vice versa.
I'm so so sorry to whinge on. I just wish someone could help me.
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mylittlepudding · 22/08/2008 18:37
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