What can the court do if ex refuses to allow contact.
My neighbours children are staying with her currently. Her Ex has a residency order in his favour. She isn't taking them back as she's entitled to half the hols and he is being difficult as usual.
He is sending her texts saying she will never see the kids again if she doesn't bring them back immediately. She is therefore reluctant to return them given that he has in the past made contact difficult, not stuck to the order, and has made false alligations of abuse against her which meant contact ceased while it was investigated. She fears he will do teh same or worse this time.
She is seeing her sol very soon but he always tells her to wait and see if ex will stick to the agreement, and when children are old enough they can make up their own mind where to live etc (but the age he says changes all the time!)
She really wants to get the order enforced so she see's the children when she is meant to and to stop him cancelling and making excuses as to why they can't come all the time. There's been talk of a penal notice etc but this has never been done by the sol. I told her it's highly unlikely the penal notice would be enforced anyhow.
What can she insist her sol do at this point so she knows she will see the children again when she should after they go back?
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gillybean2 · 28/07/2008 07:50
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