Namechanger, am embarassed

[UnsafeRambler]

I've known a man for only 2 weeks. We met on a dating site.
My children don't know anything about him, as we meet in the daytime.

We've already had illicit and unprotected sex After 3 years of celibacy, I couldn't hold back anymore.

TBH, am sterilised so getting pg doesn't matter.

I don't know whether to feel pleased that somebody wanted me after so long, or to feel totally sluttish for being so reckless, too soon.

Just wanted to get that off my chest really.

[BoysAreLikeDogs]

yy no risk of PG but STDs are another issue.

I can totally see why you had unprotected sex, but please, ensure that you practice safe sex in future.

You knew I was going to say that, eh?

Good luck with the new fellow

[sqiushysquashy]

I dont want to put a dampner on things but arn't you worried about catching an STD.
I dont think you are a slut but I think you were foolish for not making him wear a condom, to be honest, you hardly know him.

[windygalestoday]

you should really take precautions- pregnancy isnt the only thing you can get from unprotected sex but you dont need me to tell you that do you.....

is it good?? is he good? are you having fun?

enjoy yourself but play safely

[Mercy]

Use a condom next time!

What sort of relationship do you want/expect? Is he a lone parent too?

And what do you mean by illicit sex? (sorry if I'm being nosy)

[UnsafeRambler]

Yes he's a lone parent to a DS of 5.

I didn't mean illicit as in illegal or cheating. Just hot, passionate and totally spur of the moment!

I do have condoms here, but they are years past their expiry date.
Yes, WGT, we both did have a lot of fun!

[Mercy]

Well, buy yourselves some new condoms and have some more safe fun!

[OverMyDeadBody]

Nothing wrong with having fun but for god's sake use condoms next time!

[Litterbug]

You need to get yourself checked out. And buy some condoms.

[piratecat]

i am

and very pleased for your sluttish behaviour, altho it is not, as you are both grown ups.

it must be bloody great.

BUY the condoms!!

[mylittlepudding]

Or go with him to get screened. There are GUM clinics in the daytime too! I am glad you are enjoying it!

[prettyfly1]

ok firstly - lecture time - be more careful. you dont know him and like the other girls say he couldhave anything. you dont know his history. even if you go to a gum clinic you havent been with him long enough to trust him so dont be doing any more bareback if you know what i mean

now on another note WELL DONE and how jealous am i. if your gonna come on here and brag about hot sex we want DETAILS. age, appearance background - sex or potential for more? TELL (can you tell i dont get out much)

p.s dont need any more details about the sex. that you can keep

[UnsafeRambler]

Still can't believe it actually happened!
There will be potential for lots more I hope - and 'al fresco' too IYKWIM Seeing him again next Thursday.

[gillybean2]

You can get free condoms at the family planning clinic or whatever they call them nowadays! Been a long time since i went to one...