I know this is for lone parents and im not but its about dd1's "dad" and this seems to be the place to post about it
Since dd was a couple of months old he has dragged me back and forth through the courts. From day 1 she hasn't wanted to go with him, even as a 1 year old she used to cry her eyes out until i collected her.
Anyway he was finally awarded overnight contact much to my dismay
It was all going ok AFAIK until one day late 2006 dd came home climbed straight on my lap started crying and saying she didnt want to go with him again. I kept trying to make her as i feared i would be dragged straight back to court but she refused and even told him directly she did not want to go which he said was ok.
So contact seemed to come to an end.
I recieved solicitors letter last september (2007, nearly a year later) saying I had put her up to not wanting to go blah blah blah which i responded to and heard nothing back.
Today I have recieved court summons for next month
ANyway I was talking to my dad about it today in earshot of dd, cue rant- I dont like him i dont want to go etc.
She then said that when she stayed there he locked her and his other 2 children in their bedrooms by pushing a broom against the door. We didnt believe her as doors generally open inwards and couldnt see how it would be done. She then went on to SHOW us how he did it. Across the doorframe so handle couldnt be pulled down!! I didnt even know this was possible!
I asked what happened if she needed to toilet and she said i wasnt allowed until morning! I have had problems with dd wetting the bed and this wouldnt help!
I am and want to go and string him up by his bollocks to the nearest motorway bridge.
DD is nearly 8 so i cant see how she has made this up!
What do i do?? do i go to my solicitor or is there anyone higher up i can contact about this??
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I've been shocked to the core and need some advice, wont babble to much i promise!
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iliketosleep · 09/04/2008 18:17
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