And the meanest father of the week award goes to........

[ScruffyTeddy]

My ds's dad who, in the last 18 months has spent:

Around £10 on ds for each Christmas and possibly about the same for his birthday.

He pays me no maintenance at all. He recently bought (I say bought, he didnt buy it..he gave ds his gf's lad's old mobile phone) as her 5 year old got a new and improved one. I was thinking of getting ds one this year anyway as he will be moving up to senior school. I said that as it was his dad's idea, he could put the credit on it. Ds is really sensible with it surprisingly and hardly uses it. He started off with about £3 and the next week he asked his dad to top it up, which he did, with a fiver.

Two weeks later he had used his fiver and asked his dad to top it up. His gf butted in and said ds had a fiver on it the week before. No love, he didnt, it was 2 weeks before.

I pay for everything food, clothes, uniform, birthday parties, christmas etc. He has spent approx. £40 on ds in 18 months! Grrrrrrr. There's gonna be trouble if he doesn't top this ruddy phone up this weekend, how mean can one be?

[peanutbear]

THats the problem though when new girlfriends get involved

does he not pay you maintenance at all either

[ScruffyTeddy]

not a penny

[peanutbear]

So you get no maintanance and he wont even give his son a fiver

TAke him to the CSA he would still have to pay you at least that a week tight bastard

I have a bee in my bonnet about men that dont pay to raise their children - does it show!!!

[avenanap]

I asked my ex for some more money, he said he's got bills to pay?????? 2 of them, 1 of me!

[ScruffyTeddy]

Cant take him to CSA, he doesn't work anymore. (long story, he was ill, lost his job but actually he didn't lose it because he was ill, he lost it for gobbing off at the boss, seen it a dozen times before).

His gf does {cough} "voluntary" work.

My arse.

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

Ex bought dd (4.11) a box of Quality Street for christmas.

Does he not know they are Nestle??????

[ScruffyTeddy]

You're being a bit ungrateful I think stripeymama

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

I know.

Last year it was an egg cup.

Really.

[ScruffyTeddy]

what is your problem?

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

I know.

Well, I've got something to be grateful for now - £4.90 a month in maintenance!

Oh they are such cuntybolloxwankers.

[ScruffyTeddy]

I called someone (under my breath) a twatbasket the other day, and I can only assume I heard this phrase on mn?!!!

[ScruffyTeddy]

It was not of my own original thought.

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

@ twatbasket

Also gitwizard is good. And cockmonkey and fudgerutter.

Can you tell we are in the Lone Parent section?

[ScruffyTeddy]

aye...the tumbleweed is a blowin too..

I like it here (rocks back and forth)..its mostly a safe place where many dare not roam...

[random]

lol@all the good names on here loving twatbasket

[birky]

The worst father award goes to my ex. Wanker. He owes me £140 so far in maintenance since we split, he doesn't even bother to text or phone to ask how she is and even when we were together it was me that bought everything food wipes nappies milk clothes toys.

I bought her a ball yesterday from disney store and she loves it, her face lights up when I get it out for her to play with. Today I bought her some toddler pens to draw with and she spent ages scribbling and got upset when I put them away.

Its not like I'm asking for a million pounds from him, I bought her 2 things costing literally a fiver that have made her so happy and he can't even be bothered to spare a minute of his time to send a text asking how she is

[littlewoman]

Stripeymama, give me your xp's address. I'm going to kill the bastard.
Titwank is my favourite name for xh.

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

I quite like tittyfucking twatfiddler - is that lowering the tone too far?

Anyway. Ex's sins extend far beyond what I can be arsed to post.

They include refusing to pay maintenance as he is a "free spirit" (Yes, thats a direct quote), forgetting her birthday last year (and sending her an Easter egg as a present), and failing to tell dd or myself that his gf was having a baby until the day before she gave birth (and that was only because he couldn't come and pick dd up as arranged).

[PersonalClown]

I just may win this.
Ds' father has not seen him since just before his 1st birthday. He'll be 6 in 12 days.
No maintenance, no presents, no cards, nothing.
It's like Ds doesn't exist for him anymore.

His fucking loss. Cock bandit.

[bramblebooks]

You guys will find this link very useful:

www.cheezus.com/mean/index.cfm

[Blandmum]

Dh's father to dh, the day before dh was due to have chemotherapy

'Have a nice day tomorrow'

Yeh! Nice one. The same man who, in the year after dh was diagnosed with testicular cancer phoned him 3 times. Never saw him.

Wankstain!

[PersonalClown]

PMSL Bramble.
It's just come up with Drunken C*nted Scrotum Stroker!!
I may adopt that as my new insult!

[ScruffyTeddy]

He didnt top it up. Ds asked him to and he said he had no money because.....

He's decorating his bathroom.

My heart bleeds for him. Im glad he has the money and time.

Is it ok if I shout?

AAARRRRGGGGHHHHHHHH!

Thanks.

[ScruffyTeddy]

W. anker.

[StripeyMamaSpanx]

Wankstain on the bedsheets of humanity.

on everyone's behalf.