How do I deal with the type of father who is unable to take DS unsupervised. ( reasons why that I won't go into on here ). Really Doesn't have a bond with him at all ( DS is a year and a half ), when he sees him he makes no effort to play with him or do anything for him just sits on his bum the full time on the couch and hardly communicates with him ( despite being spoken to about it ). Yet continuously turns up every second weekend for around an hour and a half. I have tried to make contact out of my home which failed as he told me after 2 times that he wasn't going to the softplay anymore because HE didn't like it. Basically in my opinion he turns up to have control so I can't ever say anything about his shitty behaviour because he will hit back at me with well I always turn up for contact and blame me for his lack of relationship with DS. He hasnt held DS in months. He Doesn't ask about him or anything he does or has done when he hasn't saw him. I honestly swear he is no use at all he just sits there. Then goes away and that's it until 2 weeks later.
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