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I'm new to this site so hi to all! Me and my ex have been separated 3 years now and I've only ever had 2 dates. We have a 4 year old boy. My ex lives 200 miles away from us with his family (his choice) and sees our son sporadically mainly for 3 days in school holidays we share the travel recently but it's been me that's taking our son to him for the first 2 years. Cut a long story short he sees him on a video call every day but is now saying if I start dating he's happy for me to do that but wants our son every weekend and wants it to go legal the reason is to 'eliminate any other man spending time with our son'. I've said no to this as it's not giving our son any stability and I won't get to see him outside of work/school days and not doing the mon-fri routine and no fun. My son is my absolute rock to me and we have such a close bond and want him to still have that with his dad but this is for the wrong reasons. Our relationship now is so rocky friends one minute and he threatens custody etc the next if I say no to something. I'm dealing with high anxiety over all of this never know what the next argument will be about and I've told him how he's making me feel. What would you do? I've tried my best to keep them as close as can be but just feel like now I'm so drained from it all and now I want someone in my life he is kicking off again
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flowerbomb99 · 02/01/2019 22:13
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