Okay so me and babys dad have been pretty much over since she was 4 weeks old and he left. We got back together for a short time but have tried to stay friends. DD was breast feeding and was hard for him to take her so have spent quite a bit of time together, all being well unless I say anything that upsets him!
DD is now 10 months old and he is meant to have her on a weekend 4 hours Sat and 4 hours Sun, although he rarely sticks to this due to taking on extra work or wanting to watch footie ( this is his right as he's worked all week)
There's been a number of times he's not let me know till the last minute he's not coming or not let me know at all, I haven't bothered saying anything as I know how nasty he gets when I confront him, so I say nothing.
Last Sunday he called said he was on his way, then nothing, I call no answer and don't hear a thing until 6pm tonight saying he's picking DD up tomorrow.
I've had enough of him thinking he can play Dad when he feels like so I've said no and explained this.
His reply is so much abuse towards me, bringing up things I'd told him in confidence, saying if I don't answer the door tomorrow let's see what happens. Then goes on to say I'm not getting any more money off him and he's been to a solicitor.
All these msgs while I'm trying to get DD to bed so I blocked his number.
Has anybody been in a similiar situation? Should I just keep him blocked? I've tried to be amicable for DD but it's impossible with him!
Before I blocked him I just tx saying I'll wait to hear from your solicitor then...
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IfIcouldturnbacktime217 · 14/12/2018 19:58
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