Just that really. My ex was abusive - verbally, emotionally, sexually and "low level" physical stuff. I've not been near anyone since I left 4 years ago but he has had various girlfriends and has introduced our son to the latest one. He's also told her that he was the wronged party. Most likely that I left him for no reason. He told me no one would ever want me as I am used goods from having kids. Now he is with a single mum of 3 kids. He gets to be in a family unit when he robbed me of my chance to be a nuclear family. I want to try and be amicable with him but he was so horrible to me. When my mums cancer came back he told me that he hoped she died and he made it difficult for me to visit her. Yet he has a loving mum who babysits for our son on the rare occasions ex takes him. I was doing well and am generally very happy without him and appreciate all the stuff I couldn't do when I was with him (so much stuff like seeing friends, buying toys and clothes for the kids). How can I get over this recent anger towards him? I've done so much counselling and listening to spiritual stuff but it's like a kick in the guts when my son tells me what he's been doing with daddy and his gf.
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Feel so sad that ex gets to play happy families with our son after abusing me
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Nicelunch25 · 24/11/2018 21:39
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