While in his care they eat lots of sweets, play PlayStation, do expensive fun activities and rarely have to clean up after themselves.
When at home we go to parks, play board games, eat healthily on the whole and all have to chip in with keeping the house clean.
This is resulting in behaviour issues at home where I am mean and daddy is the only nice one.
I am finding myself unable to enact proper consequences for bad behaviour. E.g. ask them to give me their money (about £2 each) to pay towards a replacement for the expensive thing they've stupidly broken and it doesn't matter because they have plenty more money at their dad's. It's less than he usually gives them for sweets...
No screen time? There's always PlayStation at daddy's house.
Unlikely to now be able to go on holiday because the things they have broken really are that expensive? It's ok daddy is taking them on holiday anyway.
Not taking them out for lunch now? It's ok daddy always takes them out to eat...
How do I deal with this?? I'm so tired lately I'm just reacting a lot of the time instead of biting my tongue and being mature which clearly doesn't help.
Please give me some wisdom
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zozozoo · 05/09/2018 13:08
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