Hi my ex left me and my 2 boys about 6 years ago and moved back over to ireland. My eldest was 5 and youngest just about to turn 3. I have tried so hard over the years to get him to keep in contact with the boys but he always let's them down and always seemed more interested in talking to me or about himself than asking if his boys are ok or what thry have been upto. Anyway he hasn't bothered with my boys now for about 2 or 3 years and my eldest now 11 wants nothing to do with him but my 9 year old still keeps asking will daddy ever call us again which is heart breaking. Anyway my question is should I keep pushing their dad to keep in contact to then just let then down or should I just leave it and be here for when/if he decides to grow up and be apart of their lives himself?? I feel like which ever I do has it's downsides and I can't decide please help me 😔 x
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