Ex being difficult

[mumtoateenger75]

Hi mi would like some advice
My ex of 12 years who is father to my 15 year old and 10 year old is currently doing anything to antagonise me
He is refusing to pay maintenance and cms are investigating him but it's a long process as they are pretty rubbish
He is cancelling his weekends with his kids at late notice and ruining my plans
He is being completely difficult and Iunreasonable and I know it's to get a me
I am at the point where I want to stop contact my eldest doesn't see him anyway it's just my youngest
I feel like I've just had enough
He isn't in my life but still controls me

[Moominfan]

this is exactly what he wants. be dignified and don't give him the satisfaction of a response. how old is the youngest?

[mumtoateenger75]

She is 10 x
But I don't think I can take much more

[Moominfan]

sorry your having such a hard time op, could you refuse contact with yourself and delegate someone as go between the two of you

[ferriswheel]

I so understand. I have no idea how to cope. I have the same problem.