Talking about how we should go bike riding "but mummy, daddy said you can't ride a bike, you always fall off"
New car broke down: "why did you buy this car anyway, daddy said it's a rubbish car, why can't you get a car like daddy's" (cue explanation through gritted teeth that I only had £300 to spend on a car unlike daddy)
On moving house "is daddy coming to help us move house?" No darling we'll do it on our own with a removals company "but you should get daddy to help, he's much better at moving things than you"
"Daddy says we shouldn't get a cat, cats are boring, we should get a dog. Why can't we get a dog mummy, you're so mean" (when I suggest daddy gets a dog the response is "don't be silly mummy, he works too hard, he's never at home". I work full time!)
In other examples, daddy always let's her stay up late, didn't bother to treat her for nits when I told him she had them on his weekend (I had only noticed that day) and then told me his sister was furious with me because DD had given her daughter nits (he was the one who didn't do the treatment because he was "too busy"!)
When we were together he did a great line in negative comments about me disguised as 'banter' and it sounds like he's carrying on with this in front of DD.
I would never put him down in front of her, just need to vent! I feel like I'm always bad cop while he gets to be fun daddy
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DD hero worship of exH driving me mad
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egginacup · 05/11/2017 11:36
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