My partners ex rang to speak to their kids and they passed the phone over to my girls.
She asked what they had been up etc. One of my girls said she stayed at her aunties on friday and we had a party last night at home. His ex asked my daughter If she went to play with her cousins at her aunties and she didn't answer. She then asked if her auntie has children, my daughter said no its just my auntie and uncle. His ex then said ok did the kids (theirs) come over on Saturday then
At this point I asked my daughter to say she has to go so she said bye.
I was alittle taken back by the questions she was asking or maybe I'm thinking to much into it.
I know I thought that when I heard the kids on the phone to her.
I think it's so she feels part of something their kids are part of if you understand. When she rings my partner passes the phine to the kids. When he rings them she tries to talk to him but not about the kids she asks him about us work etc like she wants to know everything that gos on in his life. If she didn't blow hot and cold, it wouldn't bother me but if she's in a mood she takes it out on him through the kids