Sigh. My main response is detachment and 'yeah ok whatever'.
He has contact one day a fortnight, court ordered and reduced due to concerns.
He buggers off a lot overseas and expects me to make up the time. I have been complying to keep the peace but fed up now. But he WANTS the engagement of disagreement, and loves to play the victim.
So he suddenly says he's away next contact, wants to make up the day this sun ( yes, Father's Day) but it's so he can swan dd round getting attention.
We have plans, we were going to do something special with my dad, dd's grandad. Cafcass have said I have no obligation if he isn't available on ordered days.
But he wins either way- if not, he will be the Victim, if I do dd will get stressed having to perform. I offered sat, which is his normal day, but he won't budge.
What to do?
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brillopants · 15/06/2017 10:15
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