So we're divorcing and separated 2 months ago. Things have been v messy and I had to leave but was happy for him to see our daughter. He made no effort. We're now back home, he's moved into a flat in the next street but has been too busy going out clubbing (yes, really) and seeing his new girlfriend to see our daughter yet. I'm struggling to understand why he's moved so close but is doing this. (Rubbing my nose in it..?)
He's now arranged to see our daughter starting next week on 1 half day and one 9-5 day that week and in the following week. Am I wrong for thinking he should make a bit more of an effort?
My child-free time is limited to a couple of mornings when my daughter is in nursery and otherwise is nil because I have no one else nearby (eg family) to help with childcare. But I refuse to expose our daughter to his messing about and let down. So far, in the last 2 months, he's seen our daughter for a grand total of ONE afternoon and spoken to her on the phone a handful of times. I actually feel as manipulated and as abused as when we W're together but I want to do the right thing for our daughter. Should I lay down some ground rules? Should I seek a court order? Or should I just hope that he disappears from our lives? What can I do?
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NooNooMummy · 05/09/2016 17:25
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