Help me stop being a martyr

[sweartin]

Have three children, 2 dads, pretty much always on my own. Finding it really hard but must be a new year's resolution to stop feeling sorry for myself! Begining to bore myself with my whinging! Not my children's fault and need to appreciate what i have a LOT more :)

[milo19799]

Hope you're ok. Know exactly how you feel. I find that after Christmas I always feel a bit sorry for myself and new years eve is always good for making you feel that extra bit lonely. I love the kids but sometimes a bit of adult company (outside of work) would be good too! I'll pinch your New Years resolution too!