So having already had an issue with my XP in the last week, today has been another issue.
DS has had a nasty cough for the last 6-7 weeks. After 3 weeks I took him to be checked at the docs and they said it was a virus, but to bring him back if it didn't improve. The following weekend he started bashing his ear, whinging and saying it hurt, so back I went again - again told prob more of the virus. 6 weeks into the cough (last thurs) I had to pick him up from nursery because despite not having a temp he was displaying the symptoms of one. Nursery suggested I try and get another docs appointment which I did. Again told there was no sign of infection, but they asked to see him again today. Today he has been prescribed an inhaler as asthma is a possibility.
I've updated XP along the way, but today he has said that he will be phoning the doctor to check what is going on. It's quite common for him to do this if DS goes to the docs. I tell XP and update him on all medical things, but is this regular clarification on what I've told him normal?
DS had chicken pox once and doc recommended he stay home instead of doing the 3 hour journey to his dad's. I told XP this and suggested he came to us for the day instead. However, he called the docs who confirmed what I said, but then called me and said I was lying and that the doctor had said DS could go! I was so confused I called the doc for clarification and she was fuming he'd lied about what she'd said.
Would you continue to tell XP when DC has docs appointments? I feel he has a right to know, but I'm finding the interrogation exhausting. The joke is he's the one who lies, I've never once lied to him!
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AKP79 · 06/05/2015 22:34
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