Summery of some of his behaviour;
-Constantly, through mediation and solicitors, accuses me of stopping him having contact with children and threatening to take me to court (completely untrue)
-Refuses to close joint account and now seems to have taken a credit card out with my address, causing problems with my benefit (financial transactions by him from this address, making it appear he still lives here)
-Keeps having all my mail redirected, meaning he has had my car and house insurance, my wage slips, school letters, bank statements and solicitor letters, among other things. I've complained endlessly to Royal Mail who each time assure me they will stop my mail being redirected to him.
-Has lied to my oldest two children and also his whole family have been doing this. Those two children have been refusing all contact with me and all of my extended family for 8 months now.
-Him and his family have cut all contact (their choice not mine) with my third son, not even sending him a birthday card.
-My fourth child (only four) has been coming back from her fathers telling me things such as "daddy has bought me a new Barbie bike, but I can only have it if I live with him and not you, because you are a naughty mummy".
-My fifth (and youngest) child is lactose intolerant but ex says "well according to you anyway" and still gives him cows milk, butter, yogurts, chocolate etc, when at his, resulting in him soiling himself several times a day for most of the week, when he returns.
-He refuses to make any decisions on splitting up our financial assets as he claims "I don't deserve anything"
He left me by the way.
The emotional strain has left me feeling constantly run down and exhausted, snappy with the three children who still live with me (really bad I know) and just an emotional wreck in general. I can't carry on like this. What can I do?
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NAR4 · 01/05/2015 09:59
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