Too much to say, don't want to drip feed, but sbxh, left after a break down, mental health issues and alcohol misuse. In the last 3 years has come and gone. Finally been diagnosed as BPD. He rally wanted to be back in family and we loved him and tried many times but now totally broken down. On the last to occasions he had the dcs I had to collect early as he phoned saying he had been drinking. I then stopped dcs going to his. Months later tried again and although not out of control had been out to friends and drank a lot resulting in a lot of self loathing behaviour whilst children with him. He has now moved back to his home town in the Midlands which is a 4 hour drive away and is hoping to have dcs to stay. I'm nervous to allow access in the circumstances, although kids love him and want to see him, but no longer on the doorstep, not sure what to do. Any advice?
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onanotherday · 28/04/2015 13:36
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