Ex was only violent once and it was just pushing and spitting on me.
Ex harassed me for months ending in conviction for harassment. Technically the emails that finally got him convicted read as quite pathetic even though they were designed to upset me, read alone they would not seem harmful.
I have restraining order against him he has stuck to apart from small things; comments and attitudes I cannot prove.
Visits dd every month since she was 3 months and travels 200 miles pays over £100 to spend time with her.
Has not turned up multiple times but mostly with warning.
Has multiple assault convictions, drug convictions on record but these were from years previous.
His house is in my opinion not at all suitable for a child he has a conviction for holding a dangerous dog who lives there and the last time I saw the house it was a bit of a building site.
Dd is now over 2 and ex still comes to see her monthly. He is disinterested sometimes but nothing awful. He has made no attempts to progress the contact.
I need to change the contact and feel it needs to be progressed. I really want to cut him off entirely as I think he is a very awful person who will eventually really hurt dd at least emotionally.
What would happen if he took me to court? Would they take any of these things into account?
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Lovedandexhausted · 17/12/2014 00:10
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