Hi All,
It's been an age since I've posted on here, but I hope someone on here will be able to help me. In a nutshell, my ex and I divorced in 2009. The solicitor ordered that he pay me £300 per month in total for our 3 children (this was 25% of his net income at the time). He went about a year unemployed (it was his decision to resign from a reasonably well paid job to claim JSA in order to move in and live with his new woman) and didn't pay me a penny during that time. He then found a job locally to her and started paying again.
In April this year, he and his new woman moved to Bournemouth, meaning he resigned once again from his job and was unemployed for a couple of months. He and his woman married in August. He had told me prior to their move that she had a large sum of money (circa £300k) from the sale of her house (enough to purchase another, to rent in the area, and live mortgage free). The issue I have is he is now in arrears and as far as I can see, has no intention of upholding the agreement of £300 per month.
I am, as far as I'm aware, powerless to do anything about this. He is currently working again, but his basic pay is £250 per week (with very healthy bonuses if he achieves targets and chooses to be honest about them!) I was wondering if, now he's remarried, the new 'income' from his wife would be taken into account if I approached CSA? As a low earner (part time teaching assistant), albeit receiving child and working tax credits, I'm struggling to make ends meet without regular payment from him, and with Christmas approaching, I'm starting to panic!
Any advice would be gratefully received. Thank you.
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shakennotstirred · 11/11/2014 21:00
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