So after years of trying to get the dad to commit to regular contact, he is atm travelling down from London to cardiff to see them, initially it was for a couple of hours, now it's going to be overnight in a hotel in cardiff, and in two months he wants the children, aged 2 1/2 and 5 to travel to London on a Saturday and home again on the Sunday! Initially I have agreed to this although I think it is a lot of travelling for such a short stay over. He left our family initially when we were living in farnborough, where I knew nobody and he was moving into London to live, therefore I moved back to my home town in Caerphilly for family and friend support, therefore I am brining his children up single handedly with no assistance (except money) from him, I get no time off, no break, I spend my whole time looking after and running around after the children whilst he lives a bachelor style life, fine, actually I have no issue with that at all, except now on his 1 weekend In 4 he wants me to travel half way to meet him on both the Saturday and the Sunday to drop off and pick up the children! When I refused he started threats of going to court and reducing maintenance money! I realise it may seem reasonably to request a half way meet but that does mean he gets 3free weekends every month to do as he pleases whilst I look after the children, and on my weekend off, I can't plan to go anything or go anywhere as I'm travelling half way to London to take his children to him! So my issue is two fold, firstly the children having to travel such a distance for such a short visit, plus my time element, he wants everything his own way! Oh and btw I've asked him to see the children every other week but he only wants every 3 weeks! Any advice out there please?
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