I am 18 weeks pregnant this is my 1st baby. At the beginning the relationship with the father was great we were planning on moving in together and eventually have a family, this pregnancy was an accident. My ex got a job 5 hours away so i left my job to move with him, the whole time i was there he was a monster, treated me like muck, kept telling me to f**k off back home, elbowed me in the stomach several times the final time he had jumped into bed his full body weight landing on my side and elbowed me in the stomach resulting in me being physically sick with the pain. That was the final straw i ended up sleeping on the floor and the following day i woke up to more abuse and told to pack my stuff and start walking home, i moved back that day. Recently heard off old work friends he had told them id stolen money and some of his belongings which i didnt i wouldnt he left me in debt owing money on my credit card which i have had to find money to pay. He was caught out being filthy with other girls via facebook, snapchat and whatsapp when i moved there and as soon as id moved home he had started it all again. He has no interest in this baby, he told me to get an abortion after seeing the scan photo, i personally feel i dont want him as a role model in my babies life. Facing being a single parent is daunting but i have the support of my family. Im living at mums and im STILL jobless which is another worry as the time is ticking now im desperate to get working. My dad wants me to have no contact with him what so ever and he is now blocked from getting in touch with me. Anyone else been in a situation like this???
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