Im quite sad and really broken as to why this guy has to be so nasty to me all the time. i fell pregnant for him and he left me the whole 9 months after i delivered he starts calling not once does he say the words im sorry but keeps saying nasty words to me. He makes it seem like he is doing me a favour by coming back for his child and expects me to beg him to come and see her. im tired of fighting with him i wish i could be at peace with him for the sake of the baby but he is so un predictable i could send a message of peace and get a nasty reply i just dont know what to do......he claims i have too much pride and untill im meek the child is mine alone. please help me know what to do, what i should i do? the fact that he attempts the calls shows he wants to be part of the baby but is too proud to admit right? his words really break me. last time i was too pushed i called him a son of a bitch n told him i hated him i know that didnt help the situatuion but he also called me his prostitude in one of his insults to me. we are fighting all the time there is no moment of peace between us and yet we have a wonderful baby. Do i apologise to him? what do i do? how do i try for the baby's sake. i know me and him can never work out but for the sake of my child what should i do? his last message to me was the baby is mine alone he will never be in touch again and i shouldn't bother calling him anymore. should i leave him alone? my heart breaks each time i look at my daughter i feel like im not trying hard enough to give her, her dad. advice me please
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Use our Single Parent forum to speak to other parents raising a child alone.
Lone parents
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.