Dd is 6 and has been going to her dad's every other or every third weekend for five years. She desperately wants to attend a dance class that's only on a Saturday morning, she's been asking for almost three years. She does a different dance class on a weeknight and loves it, is good at it and it's been really helping her confidence as she's previously suffered with selective mutism. Her dad lives half hour away and his fuel is paid for by his company. He rarely does anything with her during contact, often doing his own hobby instead. He refuses to take dd dancing.
I've offered that he either takes her to dancing and therefore be involved in her passion or otherwise that I take her and he collects her afterwards/I take her to him and he returns her to school on Monday instead of on Sunday at 2 p.m. as he currently does. He refuses. There is no court order in place so technically I could insist he takes her or else change contact to commencing from Saturday lunchtime and let him take me to court. What do you think? Should I change contact? Would court be supportive of dds activity? It seems so unfair that she'll never be able to do any gymnastics competitions or anything because they'll sometimes fall on weekends.
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MinnieMoose2014 · 04/02/2014 15:01
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