I split up with my daughters father jan2011, we lived in this house till end of july 2011 together and during this time worked out when he left he wouldn't pay normal child maintainence, as my mortgage is very small and so he could afford a decent place for my daughter to have as a second home.
His rent was almost the same as my mortgage and the loan repayment I took out to give him half profit of house.
As I am self employed, the mortgage company would be unlikely to allow me to keep the house in my sole name, so his name is still on it, however he has received his 'half' of the property and if/when I was to sell, I take my share and anything over and above, we split.
He agreed, at the same time to pay half towards big essential jobs needed to be done on property, half towards our daughters clothes, school uniforms and school dinners.
To cut a long story short, he has never paid anything towards house, quickly stopped paying for clothes and now, more recently school dinners..in short, he now pays nothing!
He is a horrible person and would cause an argument in an empty room, he truly believes the benefits I receive are here to pay for my daughter , not him!, and I shouldn't expect anything from him...up to now, I have let him get away with it as to not cause conflict for my daughter.
However, his girlfriend is now planning on moving in with him, this almost happened last year and I spoke to him explaining our 'agreement' would change as he didn't pay maintainence due to him paying same as me for house...now he will/should be only paying half...he argued black and blue last time and she didn't move in, now it looks like its going ahead.
he will be aware it will come up again, but I want to know where I stand legally and get my facts straight before the subject is broached as I can only work with facts with him, he's not a reasonable person.
sorry, ive witterd on, just thought a bit of background was needed!, has anyone gone through similar or is anyone a solicitor who can advise me? thanks so much :)
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PinkChick · 27/05/2013 22:59
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